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Title: How to Make a Relationship Work
Tags: Dashuri, Love, Date, Zemer, Bukuri
Blog Entry: The experts will give you many techniques to try and make your relationship feel special and last longer.  I believe the best way to achieve this is in doing things together.  Develop shared interests which make you closer as friends. For instance, if you are both able to share hard work, as well as have a laugh and experience the ups and downs of working on a project together, then you create an additional  bond which otherwise could have been missing.   The problem to overcome first of all is the common attitude of not wanting to share a hobby with your partner. There are many reasons why people do this, especially men: I need time alone; we cannot be with each other for too long without arguing; we have no common interests, etc.  You need to get out of the defeatist attitude and actually aim to make this joint hobby work.  The relationship should be there to benefit you as well as your partner, so make it happen.  Demand more and give more.  Most importantly, treat your partner as a friend and make the effort to move closer to them. By working together on some project or hobby, you form strong bonds, reignite lost passion and both gleam a sense of achievement which you both understand and see in the other.  It really is a win-win situation and should form part of any healthy relationship.